November 1 – a sky of memories

Unfortunately, almost every one of us has experienced a huge loss in life. The one that can not be compared with anything and nothing can replace it. Although we are aware of the inevitability of death, it always causes great pain and emptiness in us.

We experience these feelings when losing a close person, regardless of whether or not we have tried to prepare for it, or  it did happen unexpectedly.

November is the month that begins with one of the saddest days of the year. We meet family members, friends, childhood neighbors, and many other people with whom we were connected by a person who is  no longer with us.
We light a candle and we wipe away the tears of emotion, although in our memory often only the crumbs of old days are preserved … The scent of the grandma world’s best apple pie, the juicy greenery of the grandfather’s garden, the voice of emotion or the laughter of other relatives. Let’s spend the day, with those few important memories and moments. Let’s focus on those who are not with us. Let us remember them as our most precious treasures and remember the best qualities and beautiful moments full of joy and warmth. Recall for what we love so much and why  we admire the person … Let only the best moments.

This day reminds me that time is running out and we should not lose it to negative energy, bad emotions and mutual reluctance. We have ourselves and we have to  be good to ourselves, honest, let’s share a good word, gesture and smile … every day ..

 

Photo. Robert Lewandowski